Who are the Special People Who Touched Your Life?

On New Year’s Day, I received an unexpected phone call from Jim Brown, the youngest son of Rev. Bob Brown, asking me to share a few words at the celebration of life for his father who had died at age 91. Bob exemplified Westborough, MA, a special community where I grew up. He was an enormous support to my mother and family when father died in a car accident. 

I have not lived in Westborough for more than 50 years since graduating from college and joining the Peace Corps in 1971. But the amazing power of Bob Brown still endures. As the assistant minister of the Congregational Church, Bob led the youth group. When I spoke at the service, I had the special opportunity to be back in that church which has a 1964 plaque honoring my father.  

Bob called for us to live better, not in abstract terms, but in our everyday actions and behaviors. He was one of the most incredible and gracious people I have known, a truly amazing human being and model for my life. At the packed church service, I shared some stories about Bob and asked those attending to reflect on his many positive attributes. I offered this list and challenged each person to consider one area to improve their life going forward:

·       treating everyone with dignity and respect

·       showing more humanity and humility

·       expressing confidence in people

·       being more curious and less judgmental of others

·       being present and giving undivided attention.

That last one is where I will choose to focus more attention. 

What about you?  Who are people that touched your life in a positive, meaningful way? Take some time to reflect on what you learned and consider what maybe you could do better. I am sure glad I did. 

We each have an extraordinary opportunity to make a difference in people’s lives, including our own. Don’t underestimate your impact!